Monday, 23 February 2015

Sometimes I dislike him so much.....

Can I kill him? Please?
Mr H is driving me completely insane at the moment.

 Firstly he has a cold, it's the one I have had had for the last couple of weeks, I had a couple of days where I felt pretty grim and  it's pretty vile but you get by and carry on. Unless, of course you're Mr H, when you moan, whinge, sniff, sneeze, cough and blow your nose, all very very loudly, and very very often. Yesterday, in 10 minutes, I counted 6 nose blows, 8 big sniffs, 4 coughs, 3 sneezes (with no putting hand over mouth) 6 "oh dears", 5 grunts and groans, and 4 miscellaneous weird noises. Delightful. A joy. Thank God he is working away this week.

Secondly, the ongoing saga of his mums dementia and physical illness. She is in hospital for the second time in 2 months, there is some confusion as to the diagnosis and prognosis, mostly due to the fact that his sisters are not honest with the medical / nursing staff as to her previous condition, they say that she was ok up until December when she became ill with an infection, it's not true, she has had signs of dementia for at least 5 years previously, and has been deteriorating a lot over the past 2 years. Mr H says he disagrees with them, but he doesn't, they all collude together, like a tripartite coven!

Today he went to visit his mum in hospital, I had suggested that he tried to speak to a senior nurse or a doctor to try and get some sort of handle on what is happening,  so when he got there he asked a Nurse if he could speak to a doctor. According  to Mr H the nurse said she "would send one down". Interesting, I qualified as a Nurse in 1976, have worked as a nurse ever since, and have never been able to "send " a Dr to see a relative at the drop of a hat. Of course it didn't happen, after 45 mins Mr H left, cross because the Dr didn't turn up, " maybe he was in A&E saving a life?" I suggested, Mr H grunted that " the doc was probably out having a fag" This is what makes me detest him sometimes, he us so obnoxious and has no concept of what other people might prioritise in their work, just because he deals with bits of paper, spreadsheets and not real people he thinks that's how the whole world revolves. I do so dislike him at the moment!
But I have the bliss of 3 nights "home alone" and I will enjoy them so much.

Hannah x (sorry for the rant)

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