It's a control thing again......

As usual Mr H wants  to control my life, mostly I think it's benevolent, but it irritates the hell out of me!!
We were away last weekend for my 60th birthday, together with my adult kids and their partners. We went somewhere that Mr H had never been before, so he was slightly worried that he was in unknown territory, but he coped. We had a wonderful weekend, possibly helped by the fact that Mr H "didn't feel well" after too much alcohol on Friday night so spent the rest of the weekend feeling sorry for himself. More fun was had without him!
However he has been on holiday from work this week and has tried to plan my life for me,
" so on Tuesday we'll do ..........., on Wednesday we'll do ..........I've got the dentist Thursday morning then we'll do .............." The only good bit was that he decided to go fishing on Friday!
It has driven me very very close to insanity!
 I've got on with my normal chores while he's loitered about like a spare part, and when I've tried to find a bit of "me" space, it's been invaded, he's come to sit with me in the conservatory, even though he doesn't like it, because he "thinks we should be together". What I will do (apart from murder him) when he retires I don't know.
In the meantime, only 2 sleeps before he goes away with work for 3 glorious nights- I can't wait!

Hannah x